Kai-fu Lee's third letter to Chinese students

 Kai-fu Lee's third letter to Chinese students: successful, confident, happy
Previously, many Chinese students and I share all about how to achieve excellence and excellence, leadership and how to be launched. Recently, Sina chat rooms and I received many emails, I found more and more Chinese students need to know not how from good to great, but how to positive from confusion, from failure to success, from inferiority to self-confidence, from the melancholy to happiness, from fear to optimism.
An extreme example is the February 2004 took place in Yunnan University Majiajue events. Majiajue brutally murdered his four classmates. But Ma Jiajue was arrested and psychologists conversation view, he should not be an evil person, but a lost,UGGs, lack of self-confidence, character enclosed children. He and many college students, eager to know how to be successful, confident and happy.
me letter is addressed to those who want to succeed but that the success of reach, but always eager to self-pity self-confidence, desire happiness but I do not know why the matter of students happy to see. hope this letter will give the reader an on success new definition, to encourage readers to understand and recognize themselves to be a happy person. hope this letter will help readers understand the success, confidence, happiness is a virtuous circle: where you can get from a successful self-confidence and happiness, happiness can be obtained from the self-confidence in and success can be obtained from pleasure in the success and confidence.
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your own. Faulkner said: care about you than you are now strong. school to see results, into the community to see fame and fortune. especially in today's China, people bear the brunt of the pursuit of wealth, all walks of life, the success of the evaluation of a person, more personal wealth indicators. However, with the best The results can contribute to society? Yes fame certainly happy?
true success should be diversified. success may be that you have created new wealth or technology, for others you may bring of happiness, may get you on the job someone else's trust, it may be you find a return to self, inoffensive way of life. The success of each person is unique. So, Ling Zhijun in its One important conclusion drawn from the book , so that their better each day than yesterday.
successful first step: take aim in life, be a proactive person
Sina chat room, when friends ask what my goal in life is when I answered in this: better, more efficient, can bring them happiness and joy. .
For me, life goals is not a slogan, but my best think-tank, it has helped me many times to solve the problem of work and life. I had to give up work in the United States and moved to China was founded Microsoft Research China, it is because I feel that the latter have a greater influence of work,bailey UGG boots, and my goal in life is more consistent. In addition, when I received a letter from the students lost letters, write them a letter, I also will think: , but unfortunately he was arrested after the incident realize. He said: ? hh things in the future, at this moment I see, I was wrong. In fact, the meaning of life is that there really is. Ask yourself, full of love of parents, sister, how would think of this? so, he may not go astray by.
so, whether to the truth, in order to influence, or for happiness, family, morality, quiet, knowledge, innovation hh Once the goals in life, you can target, like me, under the guidance of life, decisively and make major life decisions. each person's life goals are unique. The most important thing is You have to take the initiative to take their own life goals. But do not be rushed, not in pursuit of so-called it? many of my classmates asked me what their goals that? I can not answer, because only one person can tell what your goal in life, that person is you. only one place you can find your target, that is your heart .
I suggest you close your eyes, the first one comes in your mind the ideal record, as the answer without thinking is the most sincere. Or, you can look back at your happiest, most accomplishment of life is, is there something in common? they are probably the most motivating your life goal. Furthermore, you can imagine, fifteen years later, when you reach the perfect state of life, you What environment will be in? what kind of work? One of the most fun thing is what? Of course, you may wish to talk about family and friends, listen to their views.